Praxis Xaddy standing outside, face obscured, wearing a black dress, a black harness, and black boots. They are holding a flogger with silver falls and a purple handle. They have light skin and are fat. They have a tattoo on one leg.

Find your hottest self.

I'm Praxis Xaddy (they/them), a holistic kink practitioner in Saint Paul. I am trauma informed, approachable, experienced, and ready to create custom experiences to help you explore, grow, heal, or simply live your fantasies.

I’m available for sessions, coaching, and collaborations.

Please note that Praxis Xaddy has had chest masculinizing surgery since their most recent pictures were taken.

I use my extensive knowledge of spirituality, sexuality, and physiology to create the deep attunement, safety, and vulnerability needed to access the part of you that I call your hottest self - the part of you that connects your inner wisdom, your deepest fantasies, and your unlimited potential for growth.

I believe that connecting to our hottest selves is powerful on a spiritual, emotional, and soul level. I take the time to understand any barriers you may have, with thorough negotiation, discussion of kinks, triggers, fantasies and more. I specialize in creating experiences that help clients move through shame and feel connected to their hottest self.

I am knowledgeable, approachable, and I love to meet people where they’re at. I especially focus on being accessible to:

- Kink first timers

- Queer people

- Trans people

- People questioning/exploring their sexuality and/or gender

- Neurodivergent people

- Disabled people

- Shy people

- People with histories of personal or systemic trauma

I do not discriminate against clients who are older, larger, or people of color.

PX is sitting behind a table full of kink equioment and other items, they are visible from waist to shoulders and wearing a Black Calvin Klein bra. On the table is a knife, a peach, a rose quartz crystal, and impact tools.