Reflective Practitioner

Goddexx

Guide

I have extensive training, education, and experience in spirituality, human gender and sexuality, and physiology. I have lived experience as a non-binary, queer, disabled, neurodivergent, and traumatized person.

I’m passionate about helping people find their hottest selves.

My play style is holistic, accessible, playful, and trauma informed.

I’m a kink chameleon, enjoying scenes from gentle exploratory play to serious sadism.

I’m a delight to serve.

Why kink coaching?

Coaching sessions have a whole variety of uses and goals. You can always expect that I will offer compassionate and non-judgemental listening and collaborate with you to reach your goals.

Kink can reveal the essence of who we are. I’m here for when you need to talk it through.

Some examples of kink coaching sessions include:

  • Reflection and integration

    • Guided reflection on gender exploration through kink play

    • Guided reflection on how trauma, stress, and other life events are impacting your kink practice

    • Guided reflection on kink and spirituality

  • Unearthing or articulating buried desires and fantasies

  • Helping lifestyle dominants create scenes, protocols, and other play

  • Helping people with trauma, disabilities, and other barriers to kink articulate their needs and talk through play options to better fulfill their fantasies

  • Building communication skills

  • Discussing kink skills like negotiation, vetting, aftercare, and debriefing

  • Investigating the holistic impact that kink play is having on your life and identity

  • Emotional and spiritual support with kink related concerns

Please note: I am not a therapist and all coaching sessions are peer to peer support.

I am available for teaching and presenting on topics including:

  • Post-Scene Integration

  • Kink, Self Discovery, Spirituality, and Worldview

  • Integrating Gender Play

  • Rest Fantasies

  • Kink for Personal Transformation

  • Self Care for Kink Professionals

  • Moral Distress and Kink

  • Values Based Kink

  • Kink and Grief

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My favorite things…

Many subs tell me they simply want me to use them however is pleasing to me. They can expect the following:

  • Service, gifts, and dates

    • My favorite subs take pleasure in making me feel pampered and worshiped. My top two love languages are gifts and acts of service. Expect to take me on dates of all kinds. Expect to learn my favorite brand of dark chocolate, be on good terms with my favorite florist, and to send me hand written letters of devotion. I love all types of service and especially practical service and body service. Expect to clean my play space, brush my cat, and massage my feet.

  • Wellness Domination

    • Oh you want me to use you however I want? Go to bed on time. Journal about your feelings. Stay hydrated. Do self compassion meditation.

  • Eco Kink

    • Expect scenes involving flowers, fruit, and anything to do with nature.

  • Pain Play

    • You’ll feed my sadistic side with impact play, needle play, and all sorts of creative cruelty.

  • Humor

    • I love to laugh and I love to use subs for my amusement. Expect lighthearted humiliation, silly assignments, and general goofiness.

  • Conditioning and Mind Control Role Play

    • I find it incredibly amusing when subs come to associate pleasure with the sound of a bell, certain songs, or simply my voice. Are you ready to be my good conditioned thrall?